> Hi, I've got an admission as a PhD student, but because of my stuttering problem, I don't know whether I can be successful or not.
First congratulations. Second, complete non-sense! I know many who did PhDs and are still stuttering. Actually, it is easier doing a PhD because you do research and write your thesis which does not require you talking. So what is the alternative to not doing a PhD? WHATEVER you do in life you have to face stuttering? So you might as well do the stuff you want to do!! > I've really been hoping to become a competent scientist for whole my life.
Great. that is the single most important factor to become a good research student. > I'm sure that you can give me very essential advice to me because you've overcome your stuttering problem and got a PhD. When I found your blog, I think you are a role model to me.
No, I have not overcome it. But I had to make a similar decision, and went to England to study and later get a PhD. I always told myself: Tom you will do it what ever happens. Stuttering will NOT HOLD ME BACK FROM TRYING! And very importantly: I WILL ALWAYS TRY AND GIVE ME BEST: IF I SUCCEED; GREAT: IF I FAIL, AT LEAST I TRIED! Do you want to spend the rest of your life regretting not having tried it? > I think that fluency was essentially required for you to get your PhD degree.
Actually, I know few stuff where you do not need to speak a lot. In fact, speaking while doing a PhD is a tiny part of your work. > Maybe you had to give a presentation fluently, or you might take an oral test to pass the qualified exam.
No, I have stuttered during presentation, but EVERYONE was very helpful. Instead it was easier in a sense, because they were understanding because of our handicap. > And I think fluent speaking ability is really needed for you to do a job as a consultant well. How have you been dealing with all those situations in which you need to speak well and fluently?
As a consultant, fluency is more important. But you just need to keep moving and say: OK, maybe I am not fluent, but do you want to have a fluent clueless semi-expert or a stuttering expert? Stop thinking about it. Think about how to cross that bridge when you get there not now! You haven't even started your PhD... > Moreover, whenever I try to speak in English, I can feel that my mouth is more frequently blocked. I guess that you've got through a similar problem. Would you mind if I ask you about how to deal with the problem too?
I just did it. I just took the challenge. >>> Or I think anything you say to me can be helpful for me. If you have anything to say to me, just let me know about them.
As I said, just do it and don't care about what will happen. Whatever you do, you have to go through it. Re treatments, you could join a local self-help group and attend a national stuttering conference to meet others. It is a great source of inspiration. And I would recommend that you send an email to your news supervisor or admission tutor, and explain him that you stutter and ask whether this will be a problem (and also tell me that you really really want to do this...). I am sure s/he will write back that they will do everything to help you. So be open about it, it will help you decrease the pressure because it is talked about and you will see that everyone (99%) will try to help you as much as possible. Good Luck! Tom